No one dreams of becoming a refugee. I know – I was one, a child fleeing war-torn Sarajevo. Though the Bosnian War has faded from global attention, for those it displaced, the struggle persists. Being a refugee is not a one-time event, but a lifelong series of petty humiliations as you chase the elusive prize of acceptance in a new homeland.
This collection shares raw stories from refugees like me who now call Canada home. On paper, Canada welcomes diversity; in reality, immigrants often face a glass ceiling that excludes us from full participation. With irony, in this multicultural nation we are made to feel like uncomfortable outcasts burdened by our pasts.
You may not want to hear our stories because they highlight bitter truths - that even in an open-armed country, refugees endure judgement and distance. But acknowledging these stories is the first step toward positive change. By reading about our intersecting struggles you become part of the solution helping to shift perspectives and bring us in from the margins. Our histories make some uncomfortable, but are essential to share if we hope to build a more inclusive society.
When I was contacted by author Aleksandra Osman and she told me about her book, I was intrigued and agreed to read and review a copy. It is a slim book, with 115 pages in the paperback edition, but it really packs such a punch to the heart.
We live in a time when the plight of so many refugees is all around us. On the news, on social media, in the newspapers. So many people have to flee their homes, many of these are women and children, and many of them will never return to their original countries.
Aleksandra Osman's book is a collection of stories from refugees who fled Bosnia, mainly Sarejevo, during and after the Bosnian War. All of the people in the book have settled in Canada, and all of them have heart breaking tales to tell. We like to think of the countries that offer safety to refugees as free places, where people can try to build their lives again. Where they will be offered opportunities and treated as equals.
A book that I will keep and return to and one that has left such an impression.